Decision made!
image stolen from Amy's blog! |
I have finally made what could possibly be the biggest decision of my life and it’s taken me about a year to do it. I have decided to sack everything off and go to New Zealand! There are many reasons for this which I will try and make sense of below, but now I have had time to get used to the idea, I am feeling excited (also apprehensive and shit scared, but currently 70% excited).
WHY?
The seeds of this idea were first planted in my head back in 2014... me, Amy, Rob, Cesca and David were on a
night out – one of the last where we’d all be together as Amy and Rob had
decided to go travelling and live in NZ for a bit. We made a drunken decision to all go and move
to NZ and continue life as before but in a different country. David and Cesca discussed it and bought a one
way ticket to India (not quite NZ but with the aim of ending up there after
they’d done a bit of travelling).
However, me being me, chickened out and stayed put in London…where I have been since
and have been trying to escape but not quite managing it. So the idea has been in my head for a while,
especially when Lisa and Mark announced out of the blue they were also going to
live in New Zealand for a bit!!
I wasn’t in the best of places at the beginning of the year
– not really loving my job, single, I had lost half my friendship group to the
other side of the world and feeling generally low because it was the
winter. On the first weekend of the New
Year I decided to stop moping and start living – I booked a Trek America trip
(with the original intention of not coming back – flights from LA to NZ were
really cheap!) but again, I chickened out and booked a return flight – I wasn’t ready. I decided to use Trek America to see if it’d
cure my wanderlust for the time being, and to see how I’d cope being thrust
into a group of random people I have never met before. I bloody loved it, and felt sad to be leaving
everyone else who’d cleverly stayed on for another week to do their own
exploring of LA. However it did cure my
wanderlust for a bit, and I stayed put, but there was still a little itch
there.
I booked up a few weekends away – Bucharest, Madrid and
Berlin, determined to have little adventures throughout the year- each one a
little bit more solo than the first.
They reconfirmed that hostels aren’t as scary as I first thought, I can
navigate a city in a different language and probably most importantly I can
make friends (even if they’re fleeting!).
I had set a deadline to myself that by October I had to
decide what I was going to do. In August I had a catch up with Lewis, and
mentioned my vague plans. A couple of
weeks later in the post arrived a birthday card from him with $20 NZ in it, the
accompanying note saying “for your NZ trip, which you WILL make”. (This nearly made me cry and put a smile on
my face for the rest of the day!!!) I also received a lovely birthday card all
the way from NZ from Amy, with (by her own admission) subliminal messaging on
it…I would say these two things pretty much made my mind up!!
Applying for the visa and actually booking my flight was a
whole other thing which I only recently got round to doing – I had put it off
because it seemed too real and definite.
But with badgering from my mum I did it.
I had a bit of a malarkey with the visa – I applied for the 23 month one
as it was the same price as the 12 month, and ever after a bargain I thought
’23 months for the price of 12!”.
However I didn’t read the T&Cs and for the 23 month one you need to
have a full medical check and chest x-ray which costs £300…not quite the bargain
I thought! Luckily immigration let me
change my visa to a 12 month for no additional fee, and now I have loads of
life admin to do including:
-
Get rid/Sell everything (well as much as
possible) as mum has limited storage space for my stuff (if anyone wants
anything let me know!).
-
Cancel the majority of my direct debits
-
Tie up loose ends on the house bank account –
shut down the british gas, thames water accounts, take my name off everything
like the council tax, tv license etc
-
Sort out a bank account that will be good for
being abroad
-
Consolidate all my savings into one account and
let the bank know I will be using my card overseas
-
PLAN WHAT I WANT TO DO IN NEW ZEALAND!!!
Actually in a list like the above it doesn’t look to
daunting, but this past week I have been stressing out about it all. I started to list stuff for sale on the
internet but no one wants my stuff , boo!!! I can't believe no one wants to buy my pink glittery Jesus...who wouldn't want one of those!
WHAT ARE MY PLANS?
To be honest I don’t really have any, beyond landing in
Auckland on 28th December. I
am hoping Amy will put me up for a week or so, so I can acclimatise and spend
NYE with her, but then I need to find my own way. I will be arriving in high season so worried
busses and hostels will be booked up already and stressing out about what I
need to plan. I am considering doing the
South Island first as the weather will be best there in the summer, spending a
few months travelling and working and ending up in the North Island.
Regards work, my rough plans are doing volunteering on
farms, hostels, bed and breakfasts in return for free board – I fancy doing
something a bit different to office work.
Once I am done travelling then I will look to get a ‘proper’ job to
replenish my spent savings, and find a base somewhere.
Anyways so that's my big news!! I handed in my notice today and my role has gone on the vacancy list...no turning back now!
Anyways so that's my big news!! I handed in my notice today and my role has gone on the vacancy list...no turning back now!
Hey, good luck!! A friend of mine did the same thing, spent a whole year in Australia and now he's in NZ for a year. He has a job and is exploring too!! Just keep posting and travel a lot. ^_^
ReplyDeleteThank you! I will make sure to keep blogging, I have got very lazy recently!!! :)
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